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To help you understand my story better I need to go back for a moment and share with you 6 crucial aspects of my childhood and early teens

1. My biggest dream since I was 12 was to live at the beach and travel the world
2. I’ve always been into personal growth and loved nothing more than improving myself and bettering myself in every area of life
3. I grew up in an entrepreneurial family and being my own boss has always been out of question
4. I’ve been fascinated with high performance and success for a very long time
5. I was a perfectionist most of my life and often didn’t feel good enough 
6. I’ve always been deeply intrusively motivated and had a deep sense and desire for purpose and freedom in my life

All those things lead me on this journey of lifestyle design.

Around 18 I entered the phase of self discovery and personal development. I started getting into fitness and goal setting and really worked on improving myself and my performance in all areas of life.

Around 20, when I started traveling I was searching for more purpose in life and a way to reach ultimate freedom and combine my dreams of making career and living the travel life.

The following years was a roller coaster of discovering myself, working past my childhood traumas, mental blocks and destructive habits and discovering what I was truly meant to do with my life while building my resilience upon the challenges life presented me.

But eventually I had created the life I wanted for myself and I had become the person I wanted to be. I was traveling the world, surfed amazing waves, had a job I loved and started building my business. I learned a lot about lifestyle design and personal growth and developed tools and techniques that I then didn’t know where critical for maintaining what I had created.

I’ve always been someone who once she had a dream unapologetically went after it and made it happen until…

When the pandemic it it was like I was falling and falling and there was no ground in sight. My whole life got taken away from me. My control over my life and happiness got taken away from me and I felt like there was nothing I can do against it. At the same time I was graduating university and the hard reality hit me. I felt very confused, unhappy with where I was, started doubting myself and was so lost and overwhelmed with what to do with my life and how to possibly go back to living my dream.

Up until this point I just did what I wanted and it turned out to work out all right, but there was no strategy behind it. 

So now that life got a bit more difficult, it felt impossible and I had no idea how to do it. I didn’t even know anymore what “it” looked like. At the same time I felt the pressure from society to finally grow up and get a real job, start the real life and put my degrees to some good use.

I felt forced I to a reality and life I didn’t want and I was very unfulfilled and unhappy which affected my mental health and how I showed up with family and friends.

But I knew I couldn’t settle. I already did it once so there must be a way to do it again. I knew that it would be much harder this time, for once because life looked different now and for the second part because this time I didn’t want a quick fix but I wanted to do it right, the long run was what I was after.

So I realized two things

1. I needed to get out of autopilot and up my mindset work and personal growth game to step back into the driving seat
2. I needed to go back to the drawing board and utilize some of those crucial tools and strategies that I developed earlier to get back into lifestyle design and finally combine my desire for freedom and influence with my need for financial abundance

And here we are now. Only a bit more than a year later I am at a place I never thought I’d ever be again. I am basically back to the life I used to live before all of this happened just that now I know it doesn’t have an expiration date and nothing and not anyone can ever take that away from me. And the best thing is, I know there is so much more awesomeness to come because I have big plans and as always I make them happen just this time, I know exactly how to do it!

And because I don’t want anyone to have to go through what I went through, I am sharing all the BTS and no BS strategies and tools I used to create my dream life and dream career through Lavii®.